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But before contacting your ex, you need to make sure that you do the three things that you are supposed to do in the no contact rule (mentioned in this article).It’s extremely important you do this because the rest of the plan doesn’t work until you do this.In the 5 Step Plan and the 5 Stage Guide, I recommend that you start contact with a letter.However, since it’s been almost a year after the breakup, you should skip that step (Read: Get Your Ex Back After No Contact).Here is a simple text message that works great for this. If you have not been in touch with your ex for a while, then you will probably get a response from them after this message.You have to make sure you keep things friendly in the starting. If your ex agrees to go out for coffee with you, you can count that as a date.On the other hand there are cases where you genuinely realize that what you and your ex had was something special.You realized that the reason you two broke up wasn’t really a big deal and you could have actually worked through it.
You treat them like an old best friend instead of an old lover.
You should try to build attraction with them with text messages (More Texting strategies can be found in the 5 Step Plan). Have fun at the date and show them how much you have changed over the last year and how much suitable partner you’ve become for them. In fact, you don’t want to bring the topic of getting back together until the fourth date. Ideally, you want it to be their idea to get back together.
She said hi and we chatted for awhile then we went offline.
A lot has changed in this one year, and before we talk about what you should do, let’s take a look at what you have.
All these factors will affect your strategy to get them back, but first you need to realize why you want to get back together? Are you sure that you are making the right decision in wanting them back? You never made any effort to move on and deep inside you have been in love with your ex since the breakup.